Combine text / parse-tree surrounding pair delimiter finder logic

[pokey]

Idea for an alternative implementation of surrounding pairs
We start off with a pure text based implementation that finds all the delimiters. We then use Tree sitter to disqualify or quantify the delimiters. For example tree sitter could determine that an angle bracket is actually a less than operator, that the parenthesis is inside a string or a comment. As well as quantifying if a quote is the opening or closing of a string.

Originally posted by @AndreasArvidsson in #825 (comment)

We should do this one after #1061

[AndreasArvidsson]

Implemented