Deprecate & remove Heap Ballast

[friedrichg]

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.
Deprecate and later remove the heap ballast introduced in #1489

Describe the solution you'd like
Since 1.19 we can use GOMEMLIMIT with GOGC which is a better approach at the problem
See https://tip.golang.org/doc/gc-guide

Describe alternatives you've considered
Keeping the option is not ideal, as it has a bad usage of the memory

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[yeya24]

Let's move this to release 1.17. Unfortunately we couldn't make it for 1.16