fix: listen on IPv4 loopback only by default on Windows

[mrbbot]

Closes DEVX-1076

What this PR solves / how to test:

On Windows, when specifying localhost as the socket hostname, workerd will only listen on the IPv4 loopback 127.0.0.1, not the IPv6 ::1: cloudflare/workerd#1408 On Node 17+, fetch() will only try to fetch the IPv6 address. For now, on Windows, this change defaults to listening on IPv4 only and using 127.0.0.1 when sending control requests to workerd (e.g. with the ProxyController).

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wrangler@3.18.0 includes the following runtime dependencies:

Package	Constraint	Resolved
miniflare	workspace:*	3.20231030.2
workerd	1.20231030.0	1.20231030.0
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Merging #4547 (5dfcde4) into main (71fb0b8) will increase coverage by 0.04%.
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[petebacondarwin]

E2E tests are green!

https://github.com/cloudflare/workers-sdk/actions/runs/7092496026?pr=4547