🩹 make sure to define Py_GIL_DISABLED on Windows for Python 3.13t

[burgholzer]

Description

As pointed out in pypa/cibuildwheel#1975 (comment) free-threading (Python 3.13t) builds on Windows need to have Py_GIL_DISABLED set in order to properly work.
This PR ensures that the corresponding setting is always set.

Checklist:

• The pull request only contains commits that are related to it.
• I have added appropriate tests and documentation.
• I have made sure that all CI jobs on GitHub pass.
• The pull request introduces no new warnings and follows the project's style guidelines.

[codecov]

Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 87.0%. Comparing base (28dc65e) to head (8731149).
Report is 4 commits behind head on main.

Additional details and impacted files

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Flag	Coverage Δ
cpp	86.6% <ø> (-0.1%)	⬇️
python	99.7% <ø> (ø)

see 2 files with indirect coverage changes