chore: align ci and bazelrc patterns

[gregmagolan]

Lots of cleanup of our CI and bazelrc patterns here. Aligns these patterns with the other rules_js rulesets. No functional changes

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e2e/npm_translate_lock_subdir_patch

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e2e/npm_translate_package_lock

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e2e/npm_translate_yarn_lock

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e2e/package_json_module

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e2e/pnpm_lockfiles

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e2e/pnpm_workspace

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e2e/pnpm_workspace_rerooted

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e2e/repo_mapping

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e2e/rules_foo

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e2e/vendored_node

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