PRO-8133: Add host validation error handling

[myovchev]

Summary

Add host validation error handling and tests for Vite middleware

What are the specific steps to test this change?

Requests with not allowed hosts prints console warning.

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• Bug fix
• New feature
• Refactor
• Documentation
• Build-related changes
• Other

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• It includes a) the existing issue ID being resolved, b) a convincing reason for adding this feature, or c) a clear description of the bug it resolves
• The changelog is updated
• Related documentation has been updated
• Related tests have been updated

If adding a new feature without an already open issue, it's best to open a feature request issue first and wait for approval before working on it.

Other information:

[linear]

PRO-8133 Spike: improve error message when running apostrophe locally with vite on a non-localhost domain, which generates a confusing 403 right now

[haroun]

⚠️  Vite dev server blocked a request from hostname: en-gb-site.test:3000
   This hostname is not in the allowed hosts list.
   To fix this, add the hostname to your Vite configuration:

   // apos.vite.config.js
   import { defineConfig } from '@apostrophecms/vite/vite';

   export default defineConfig({
     server: {
       allowedHosts: ['en-gb-site.test', 'localhost']
     }
   });

cc: @BoDonkey for documentation