[Python] Support python3.11/12

[chaokunyang]

What do these changes do?

• Support python3.11/12
• Drop python 3.6 support
• Use pyarrow==14.0.0
• Use arrow14 for java
• Use pyarrow==12 for python3.7
• Use bazel 6.3.2
• Remove D_GLIBCXX_USE_CXX11_ABI option since arrow removed it for compilation

Related issue number

Closes #1118

Check code requirements

• tests added / passed (if needed)
• Ensure all linting tests pass, see here for how to run them

[chaokunyang]

Compile error:

In file included from bazel-out/darwin-opt/bin/external/local_config_pyarrow/include/arrow/array/data.h:26:
bazel-out/darwin-opt/bin/external/local_config_pyarrow/include/arrow/buffer.h:163:39: error: expected '(' for function-style cast or type construction
    static_assert(std::is_trivial_v<T>,
                  ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~^
bazel-out/darwin-opt/bin/external/local_config_pyarrow/include/arrow/buffer.h:458:9: error: no matching constructor for initialization of 'arrow::Buffer'
      : Buffer(data, size, std::move(mm)) {
        ^      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
bazel-out/darwin-opt/bin/external/local_config_pyarrow/include/arrow/buffer.h:89:3: note: candidate constructor not viable: no known conversion from 'uint8_t *' (aka 'unsigned char *') to 'uintptr_t' (aka 'unsigned long') for 1st argument; dereference the argument with *
  Buffer(uintptr_t address, int64_t size, std::shared_ptr<MemoryManager> mm,

[chaokunyang]

Compile error:

In file included from bazel-out/darwin-opt/bin/external/local_config_pyarrow/include/arrow/array/data.h:26:
bazel-out/darwin-opt/bin/external/local_config_pyarrow/include/arrow/buffer.h:163:39: error: expected '(' for function-style cast or type construction
    static_assert(std::is_trivial_v<T>,
                  ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~^
bazel-out/darwin-opt/bin/external/local_config_pyarrow/include/arrow/buffer.h:458:9: error: no matching constructor for initialization of 'arrow::Buffer'
      : Buffer(data, size, std::move(mm)) {
        ^      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
bazel-out/darwin-opt/bin/external/local_config_pyarrow/include/arrow/buffer.h:89:3: note: candidate constructor not viable: no known conversion from 'uint8_t *' (aka 'unsigned char *') to 'uintptr_t' (aka 'unsigned long') for 1st argument; dereference the argument with *
  Buffer(uintptr_t address, int64_t size, std::shared_ptr<MemoryManager> mm,

This has been fixed in #1093, thanks @PragmaTwice

[theweipeng]

LGTM