[fix](pipelien) should not finalize probe when wake up early in SetProbeSinkOperatorX

[mrhhsg]

What problem does this PR solve?

*** Query id: 80819fcc223e4a45-b46155de6e0c4eee ***
*** is nereids: 1 ***
*** tablet id: 0 ***
*** Aborted at 1736352810 (unix time) try "date -d @1736352810" if you are using GNU date ***
*** Current BE git commitID: 08683cbaf5 ***
*** SIGSEGV address not mapped to object (@0x38) received by PID 8736 (TID 11549 OR 0x7f8dd0922640) from PID 56; stack trace: ***
 0# doris::signal::(anonymous namespace)::FailureSignalHandler(int, siginfo_t*, void*) at /root/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/common/signal_handler.h:421
 1# PosixSignals::chained_handler(int, siginfo*, void*) [clone .part.0] in /usr/lib/jvm/java-17-openjdk-amd64/lib/server/libjvm.so
 2# JVM_handle_linux_signal in /usr/lib/jvm/java-17-openjdk-amd64/lib/server/libjvm.so
 3# 0x00007F92019CA520 in /lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libc.so.6
 4# auto doris::pipeline::SetProbeSinkOperatorX::_refresh_hash_table(doris::pipeline::SetProbeSinkLocalState&)::{lambda(auto:1&&)#1}::operator(), HashTableNoState>, DefaultHash, HashTableGrower<10ul>, Allocator > >&>(doris::vectorized::MethodSerialized, HashTableNoState>, DefaultHash, HashTableGrower<10ul>, Allocator > >&) const at /root/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/pipeline/exec/set_probe_sink_operator.cpp:213
 5# doris::pipeline::SetProbeSinkOperatorX::_finalize_probe(doris::pipeline::SetProbeSinkLocalState&) at /root/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/pipeline/exec/set_probe_sink_operator.cpp:184
 6# doris::pipeline::SetProbeSinkOperatorX::sink(doris::RuntimeState*, doris::vectorized::Block*, bool) at /root/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/pipeline/exec/set_probe_sink_operator.cpp:98
 7# doris::pipeline::PipelineTask::execute(bool*) at /root/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/pipeline/pipeline_task.cpp:387
 8# doris::pipeline::TaskScheduler::_do_work(unsigned long) at /root/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/pipeline/task_scheduler.cpp:138
 9# doris::ThreadPool::dispatch_thread() in /mnt/ssd01/doris-branch40preview/NEREIDS_ASAN/be/lib/doris_be
10# doris::Thread::supervise_thread(void*) at /root/doris_branch-3.0/doris/be/src/util/thread.cpp:499
11# start_thread at ./nptl/pthread_create.c:442
12# 0x00007F9201AAE850 at ../sysdeps/unix/sysv/linux/x86_64/clone3.S:83

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[mrhhsg]

run buildall

[doris-robot]

TPC-H: Total hot run time: 32490 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpch-tools
Tpch sf100 test result on commit b456b5b0e15a9cb016b0e3025bd4c0e5ed89dfa1, data reload: false

------ Round 1 ----------------------------------
q1	17601	7083	6067	6067
q2	2053	291	168	168
q3	10432	1236	703	703
q4	10209	848	420	420
q5	7498	2160	1939	1939
q6	208	176	144	144
q7	882	756	601	601
q8	9217	1340	1244	1244
q9	5226	4965	4831	4831
q10	6750	2299	1836	1836
q11	468	271	262	262
q12	347	356	220	220
q13	17769	3637	3050	3050
q14	235	231	215	215
q15	564	489	497	489
q16	631	616	580	580
q17	551	840	320	320
q18	7180	6463	6399	6399
q19	1211	942	546	546
q20	301	322	184	184
q21	2792	2122	1968	1968
q22	355	331	304	304
Total cold run time: 102480 ms
Total hot run time: 32490 ms

----- Round 2, with runtime_filter_mode=off -----
q1	6154	6171	6142	6142
q2	240	332	239	239
q3	2219	2648	2297	2297
q4	1376	1768	1354	1354
q5	4307	4718	4672	4672
q6	187	175	138	138
q7	2029	1977	1879	1879
q8	2581	2742	2633	2633
q9	7191	7192	7186	7186
q10	3009	3341	2833	2833
q11	584	508	492	492
q12	646	783	652	652
q13	3455	3884	3151	3151
q14	275	304	277	277
q15	564	514	499	499
q16	674	689	652	652
q17	1190	1739	1277	1277
q18	7788	7485	6874	6874
q19	733	1101	1000	1000
q20	1890	1969	1810	1810
q21	5480	5101	4825	4825
q22	596	597	556	556
Total cold run time: 53168 ms
Total hot run time: 51438 ms

[doris-robot]

TPC-DS: Total hot run time: 187412 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpcds-tools
TPC-DS sf100 test result on commit b456b5b0e15a9cb016b0e3025bd4c0e5ed89dfa1, data reload: false

query1	972	373	359	359
query2	6524	2354	2367	2354
query3	6719	218	215	215
query4	34039	23423	23253	23253
query5	4323	630	447	447
query6	294	196	192	192
query7	4626	519	307	307
query8	307	248	236	236
query9	9676	2705	2706	2705
query10	452	310	243	243
query11	18203	15163	14897	14897
query12	165	112	106	106
query13	1645	528	403	403
query14	10996	7424	6938	6938
query15	227	203	197	197
query16	8581	590	481	481
query17	1627	744	574	574
query18	2099	425	281	281
query19	229	172	144	144
query20	114	119	110	110
query21	206	120	127	120
query22	4269	4166	4099	4099
query23	33602	32927	33087	32927
query24	6420	2243	2241	2241
query25	464	441	374	374
query26	1199	278	149	149
query27	1990	445	330	330
query28	5197	2462	2414	2414
query29	672	532	412	412
query30	230	178	146	146
query31	969	827	767	767
query32	78	62	58	58
query33	535	342	291	291
query34	757	830	496	496
query35	816	817	762	762
query36	1000	1006	939	939
query37	127	103	77	77
query38	4056	3980	3931	3931
query39	1457	1431	1410	1410
query40	197	109	99	99
query41	52	49	47	47
query42	121	114	101	101
query43	514	538	494	494
query44	1310	809	815	809
query45	184	175	164	164
query46	865	1014	631	631
query47	1787	1777	1751	1751
query48	364	391	327	327
query49	772	469	377	377
query50	601	637	377	377
query51	6902	6909	6853	6853
query52	97	102	92	92
query53	223	253	186	186
query54	467	492	410	410
query55	83	82	78	78
query56	264	267	237	237
query57	1155	1174	1082	1082
query58	247	218	229	218
query59	2996	3235	2963	2963
query60	285	261	242	242
query61	111	112	103	103
query62	862	770	689	689
query63	224	195	188	188
query64	3898	997	626	626
query65	3221	3120	3154	3120
query66	1057	406	319	319
query67	15771	15597	15300	15300
query68	7901	728	519	519
query69	459	288	252	252
query70	1191	1157	1073	1073
query71	444	283	245	245
query72	6132	3887	3845	3845
query73	678	745	363	363
query74	10283	9099	8862	8862
query75	4049	3132	2613	2613
query76	3682	1173	769	769
query77	769	367	274	274
query78	9933	9876	9398	9398
query79	3269	792	587	587
query80	619	503	447	447
query81	569	259	225	225
query82	684	148	121	121
query83	169	168	141	141
query84	239	89	73	73
query85	739	332	296	296
query86	401	308	295	295
query87	4475	4424	4258	4258
query88	4422	2199	2140	2140
query89	398	324	299	299
query90	1901	187	195	187
query91	136	134	105	105
query92	67	56	50	50
query93	1713	841	529	529
query94	661	407	273	273
query95	339	257	254	254
query96	479	604	290	290
query97	2871	2917	2817	2817
query98	226	198	201	198
query99	1617	1555	1346	1346
Total cold run time: 292007 ms
Total hot run time: 187412 ms

[doris-robot]

ClickBench: Total hot run time: 30.48 s

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/clickbench-tools
ClickBench test result on commit b456b5b0e15a9cb016b0e3025bd4c0e5ed89dfa1, data reload: false

query1	0.03	0.03	0.03
query2	0.06	0.04	0.03
query3	0.23	0.07	0.07
query4	1.62	0.11	0.10
query5	0.42	0.40	0.42
query6	1.15	0.65	0.64
query7	0.03	0.02	0.01
query8	0.04	0.04	0.04
query9	0.56	0.53	0.48
query10	0.57	0.56	0.52
query11	0.14	0.11	0.10
query12	0.13	0.11	0.10
query13	0.60	0.59	0.60
query14	2.84	2.86	2.81
query15	0.91	0.82	0.82
query16	0.37	0.37	0.38
query17	1.00	1.00	1.01
query18	0.22	0.20	0.20
query19	1.99	1.88	2.02
query20	0.02	0.01	0.01
query21	15.37	0.97	0.57
query22	0.75	0.73	0.60
query23	15.46	1.42	0.55
query24	3.27	0.38	0.31
query25	0.22	0.18	0.08
query26	0.40	0.14	0.14
query27	0.06	0.07	0.04
query28	13.13	1.58	1.06
query29	12.55	3.94	3.27
query30	0.25	0.09	0.07
query31	2.81	0.57	0.39
query32	3.23	0.54	0.45
query33	3.13	3.04	3.09
query34	16.83	5.13	4.46
query35	4.55	4.47	4.48
query36	0.65	0.49	0.49
query37	0.10	0.06	0.06
query38	0.05	0.04	0.03
query39	0.03	0.02	0.02
query40	0.17	0.12	0.12
query41	0.09	0.02	0.02
query42	0.04	0.02	0.02
query43	0.03	0.03	0.02
Total cold run time: 106.1 s
Total hot run time: 30.48 s

[doris-robot]

TeamCity be ut coverage result:
Function Coverage: 38.88% (10131/26057)
Line Coverage: 29.93% (85712/286354)
Region Coverage: 29.02% (43727/150653)
Branch Coverage: 25.57% (22326/87300)
Coverage Report: http://coverage.selectdb-in.cc/coverage/b456b5b0e15a9cb016b0e3025bd4c0e5ed89dfa1_b456b5b0e15a9cb016b0e3025bd4c0e5ed89dfa1/report/index.html

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PR approved by at least one committer and no changes requested.

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