[enhancement](Nereids): optimize GroupExpressionMatching

[jackwener]

Proposed changes

Issue Number: close #xxx

Further comments

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[jackwener]

run buildall

[doris-robot]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 46.78 seconds
stream load tsv: 567 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 125 MB/s
stream load json: 20 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 112 MB/s
stream load orc: 64 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 32 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 25 MB/s
insert into select: 29.0 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 344K ops/s
storage size: 17162515864 Bytes

[jackwener]

run buildall

[doris-robot]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 46.29 seconds
stream load tsv: 556 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 128 MB/s
stream load json: 20 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 112 MB/s
stream load orc: 65 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 33 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 24 MB/s
insert into select: 29.1 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 343K ops/s
storage size: 17162294521 Bytes

[jackwener]

run buildall

[doris-robot]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 46.28 seconds
stream load tsv: 554 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 128 MB/s
stream load json: 21 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 107 MB/s
stream load orc: 65 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 32 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 25 MB/s
insert into select: 28.9 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 346K ops/s
storage size: 17162024193 Bytes

[github-actions]

PR approved by at least one committer and no changes requested.

[github-actions]

PR approved by anyone and no changes requested.