[fix](index compaction)ignore doc which dose not exist in destination segment

[qidaye]

Proposed changes

Issue Number: close #24728

In the unique key mow table, compaction will merge identical keys, ultimately leading to docs being deleted in the output segment files. Index compaction needs to ignore deleted rows.

Further comments

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[qidaye]

run buildall

[github-actions]

clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"

[airborne12]

LGTM

[github-actions]

PR approved by anyone and no changes requested.

[doris-robot]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 45.58 seconds
stream load tsv: 597 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 119 MB/s
stream load json: 20 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 112 MB/s
stream load orc: 64 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 32 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 25 MB/s
insert into select: 28.7 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 348K ops/s
storage size: 17162160407 Bytes

[doris-robot]

TeamCity be ut coverage result:
Function Coverage: 36.42% (8021/22026)
Line Coverage: 28.70% (64393/224370)
Region Coverage: 27.60% (33432/121147)
Branch Coverage: 24.26% (17109/70538)
Coverage Report: http://coverage.selectdb-in.cc/coverage/b3bc6a2dfa529e526120fd77708646ff2c846e79_b3bc6a2dfa529e526120fd77708646ff2c846e79/report/index.html

[xiaokang]

LGTM

[github-actions]

PR approved by at least one committer and no changes requested.