[chore](build) Pass the compile flag -Wno-unused-but-set-variable on demand

[adonis0147]

Proposed changes

Issue Number: close #xxx

Problem summary

There are some issues with the compile flag -Wno-unused-but-set-variable for clang.

1. -Wno-unused-but-set-variable should be set when building source by clang-15 on Linux. ([chore](build) Fix compilation errors reported by clang-15 #13000 [chore](third-party) Fix compilation errors reported by clang-15 #13016)
2. On macOS Monterey, Apple Clang 13 may treat it as a unknown warning option and the compilation process may interrupt.

This PR introduces a better way to make this compile flag more portable.

1. Test whether the compiler recognizes this flag.
2. Add this flag if the compiler recognizes it.

Checklist(Required)

1. Does it affect the original behavior:
   • Yes
   • No
   • I don't know
2. Has unit tests been added:
   • Yes
   • No
   • No Need
3. Has document been added or modified:
   • Yes
   • No
   • No Need
4. Does it need to update dependencies:
   • Yes
   • No
5. Are there any changes that cannot be rolled back:
   • Yes (If Yes, please explain WHY)
   • No

Further comments

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[hello-stephen]

TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 38.42 seconds
load time: 570 seconds
storage size: 17154644056 Bytes
https://doris-community-test-1308700295.cos.ap-hongkong.myqcloud.com/tmp/20221027125013_clickbench_pr_34589.html

[morningman]

LGTM

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PR approved by at least one committer and no changes requested.

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