Add extension hooks for encoding and decoding UDAFs and UDWFs

[joroKr21]

Which issue does this PR close?

Closes #11422.

Rationale for this change

The rationale for this change is to be able to run parameterized aggregation UDFs in a distributed architecture.
E.g. one use case is implementing an sample UDF (akin to array_agg but with a limit on the number of elements collected).

What changes are included in this PR?

• Extend the interface of LogicalExtensionCodec to handle aggregation UDFs and window UDFs.
• Extend the interface of PhysicalExtensionCodec to handle aggregation UDFs.
  • I couldn't figure out physical window UDFs so those are omitted.
• Handle ignore_nulls and distinct flags better.

Are these changes tested?

Yes, added roundtrip tests for encoding and decoding.

Are there any user-facing changes?

Yes, users can now override the new encoding and decoding functions.

[avantgardnerio]

LGTM

[thinkharderdev]

nice!

[alamb]

FYI @lewiszlw

[lewiszlw]

👍

[alamb]

Thanks for the reviews @thinkharderdev and @avantgardnerio -- @joroKr21 it appears this branch has conflicts that need to be resolved. Once those are sorted out I think we can merge this PR

[joroKr21]

@alamb do you get this issue locally on main?

error[E0432]: unresolved import `chrono::MappedLocalTime`
  --> datafusion/functions/src/datetime/to_local_time.rs:34:24
   |
34 | use chrono::{DateTime, MappedLocalTime, Offset, TimeDelta, TimeZone, Utc};
   |                        ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ no `MappedLocalTime` in the root

[lewiszlw]

I got this error before, running cargo update fixed it.

[alamb]

I got this error before, running cargo update fixed it.

🤔 looks like we probably need to increase the minimum version of chrono required to one that has MappedLocalTime

[alamb]

Thanks again @joroKr21 and @lewiszlw