TPC-H benchmark should distinguish between DataFusion and Ballista arguments

[andygrove]

Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge? Please describe what you are trying to do.
We can run benchmarks against DataFusion and Ballista from the same tpch binary. Many of the CLI arguments apply to both DataFusion and Ballista, but some are specific. For example --concurrency is only used when running with DataFusion, and --host and --port are only used when running against Ballista.

Describe the solution you'd like
There should be validation that we aren't providing parameters that make no sense for the context. We could also consider adding subcommands for DataFusion vs Ballista.

Describe alternatives you've considered
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