Add with_virtual_columns to ParquetSource for reading virtual columns

[niebayes]

I have found that arrow-rs has supported reading virtual columns, including RowGroupIndex and RowNumber, since v57.0.0.
I propose to add a method with_virtual_columns to ParquetSource to let user decide which virtual columns should be read.
The virtual columns, like RowNumber, could be used to implement prewhere, late materialized topk, and secondary indexes and more fancy stuff.

virtual columns support in arrow-rs: apache/arrow-rs#8715

[jkylling]

Very timely that I was already looking into this 😅 Have a look at #20133 I suspect we will need some additional changes in arrow-rs.

[alamb]

I think it is time to make an epic to try and coordinate this work (adding metadata/virtual columns to the ListingTable/Parquet reader)

See

• [EPIC] A collection of support for metadata columns in ListingTable #20135