Incorporate upstream array_slice fixes

[Michael-J-Ward]

Describe the bug
Upgrading in #669 discovered a few bugs in datafusion

Blocked on

• array_slice panics with stride=1 datafusion#10425
• stride is not optional for new array_slice UDF datafusion#10424

So we commented out a single failing test to make the tests pass.
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TODO

Once the upstream fixes are available

• re-introduce the test
• (maybe?) provide a nullable default for stride in functions::array_slice