[C++][Dataset] DatasetWriter deadlocks on concurrent WriteRecordBatch

[gitmodimo]

Describe the bug, including details regarding any error messages, version, and platform.

I encountered the problem in acero pipeline first, however i narrowed it down to DatasetWriter getting stuck in pause while concurrent calls to WriteRecordBatch are executed.

The locked state is due to rows_in_flight_throttle.backpressure_.current_value becomes huge value(unsigned negative).

This is caused by Release being called while current_value_==0

I created testcase that reproduces the problem fairly often.

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C++

[gitmodimo]

I found the root cause. Fix in #47129

[gitmodimo]

I believe this also fixes: #35156 #31449
Leaks due to unfinished plan: #46713 #36919
Maybe connected: #36951

[zanmato1984]

Issue resolved by pull request 47129
#47129