[C++][Acero]Export SerialSequencingQueue and SequencingQueue to allow external node creation

[mroz45]

Describe the enhancement requested

Currently, the SerialSequencingQueue and SequencingQueue classes are not part of the public API and are not exported. This limits the ability of users to extend the functionality of Apache Arrow by creating custom nodes that rely on this classes.

Component(s)

C++

[zanmato1984]

Issue resolved by pull request 45221
#45221