[CI][Dev][Docs] Consider updating all references to "docker-compose" with "docker compose"

[amoeba]

Describe the enhancement requested

Arrow's CI and documentation reference docker-compose in many places which is the old V1 way of calling into Docker Compose, see https://docs.docker.com/compose/migrate/ for more background on docker-compose vs docker compose. It should be safe to update all references to docker-compose to use the current docker compose.

Note: What prompted this issue is that CI just started failing due to the GitHub Actions runners not being able to find docker-compose. See 1, 2. This was caused by GHA runner image release 20240804 finally removing docker-compose.

There's already a minor PR updating CI and it would be good to follow up with a PR updating references everywhere else as I think (1) most developer systems should have V2 now and (2) V1 may slowly get phased out of package managers.

Component(s)

Continuous Integration, Developer Tools

[amoeba]

I'm looking at this today. We might be able to deprecate ARCHERY_USE_DOCKER_CLI and the related stuff in archery like using_docker_cli.

[kou]

Issue resolved by pull request 43575
#43575