[Java][arrow-jdbc] Support TIMESTAMP_WITH_TIMEZONE in default conversion

[aiguofer]

Describe the enhancement requested

This is a follow up issue to apache/arrow#37021.

The JDBC consumer can now be customized so users should be able to completely customize the bahavior to meet their needs. However, TIMESTAMP_WITH_TIMEZONE is a pretty commonly used type in JDBC and should be supported by the default converter.

Component(s)

Java