AIP-72: Task SDK support for on_task_instance_* listeners, make OpenLineage compatible

[mobuchowski]

With AIP-72, there is no access to the database session from the worker process, and the runtime objects have some differences to the db models. This PR contains three commits that deal with that situation:

• First commit adjusts on_task_instance_* listeners interface to AIP-72: drops session argument and makes task_instance argument an instance of RuntimeTaskInstance class, not database model
• Second commit adds basic support for calling listeners in Task SDK, additionally adding some context fields that allow OL and other listeners not use DB.
• Third commit adjusts OpenLineage integration to work with new interface and Task SDK.

Some followup work:

• wrap listener calls into Activity to make logging better visible from UI, and distinct from task logs
• add separate interface for API to capture manual/API task changes. Impossible to reuse current interface since object would be a different type (not RuntimeTaskInstance)
• add support for more types of listeners, more in task Ensure Listeners work with Task SDK #45491

closes #45423

[potiuk]

@mobuchowski - can you please rebase that one -> we found and issue with @jscheffl with the new caching scheme - fixed in #45347 that would run "main" version of the tests. I am asking in all affected PRs to rebase.

[potiuk]

Actually - I rebased it now.

[mobuchowski]

I will rebase very soon as I'm working on some of the test failures anyway 🙂