Add edit/create Xcom for task instance with RestAPI

[eladkal]

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Currently we have no way to manually create or edit existed Xcom.
This is needed mostly for the use case of fixing/manually recover from problems with workflows.
Ideally, later on the endpoint will be accesable from the UI as well

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[shubhamraj-git]

@eladkal plz assign this to me.

[eladkal]

Solved by #46457 and #46042