AIP-38 Add skeleton loading state to table component

[bbovenzi]

Add loading state to table and card views of our list component.

[tirkarthi]

See also TanStack/table#2386

[bbovenzi]

See also TanStack/table#2386

Thanks. The approach in my PR isn't too different except that we add extra options to the column.meta object. Then we only have to write the Skeleton components once.

[bbovenzi]

Closed in #42711