Add --exclude flag to CLI commands

[vimtor]

closes #5953

proof of it working

deploying the aws-hono example:

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change something in the bucket, and redeploy with --exclude Hono:

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running sst refresh --exclude Hono:

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running sst diff --exclude Hono:

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excluding multiple components:

[jsve]

Amazing! Was just starting to look into this. Super useful if you e.g. have some heavy SSG marketing pages or docs that you don't want to keep building.

Your implementation looks very similar to mine with one crucial difference:

I sort of followed the pulumi approach of being explicit about --exclude-dependents. However, I'm with you that this is a sane default. Hence i added --no-exclude-dependents to opt out of the suggested sst default behaviour.

[vimtor]

thanks @jsve! the --exclude-dependents was added to mirror the behaviour of the existing --target flag