test: fix crypto-dh error message for OpenSSL 3.x

OpenSSL 3.0.12 and 3.1.4 changes the type of error short keys and IVs
cause. The error message in test-crypto-dh for the "empty secret" is
now 'Supplied key is too small' instead of
'error:02800080:Diffie-Hellman routines::invalid secret'.

Error message change is test-only and uses the right error message for
versions >=3.0.12 in 3.0.x and >= 3.1.4 in 3.1.x series.

ref. https://git.openssl.org/gitweb/?p=openssl.git;a=commitdiff;h=0df40630850fb2740e6be6890bb905d3fc623b2d
ref. https://git.openssl.org/gitweb/?p=openssl.git;a=commitdiff;h=5f69f5c65e483928c4b28ed16af6e5742929f1ee
ref. https://www.openssl.org/news/vulnerabilities.html#CVE-2023-5363

PR-URL: nodejs#50395
Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <rlau@redhat.com>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>

test/parallel/test-crypto-dh.js

@@ -85,11 +85,15 @@ const crypto = require('crypto');
     }, wrongBlockLength);
   }
 
-  assert.throws(() => {
-    dh3.computeSecret('');
-  }, { message: common.hasOpenSSL3 ?
-    'error:02800080:Diffie-Hellman routines::invalid secret' :
-    'Supplied key is too small' });
+  {
+    const v = crypto.constants.OPENSSL_VERSION_NUMBER;
+    const hasOpenSSL3WithNewErrorMessage = (v >= 0x300000c0 && v <= 0x30100000) || (v >= 0x30100040 && v <= 0x30200000);
+    assert.throws(() => {
+      dh3.computeSecret('');
+    }, { message: common.hasOpenSSL3 && !hasOpenSSL3WithNewErrorMessage ?
+      'error:02800080:Diffie-Hellman routines::invalid secret' :
+      'Supplied key is too small' });
+  }
 }
 
 // Through a fluke of history, g=0 defaults to DH_GENERATOR (2).