[Enhancement] support lifecycle

[yandongxiao]

Description

support lifecycle in container

Checklist

For operator, please complete the following checklist:

• run make generate to generate the code.
• run golangci-lint run to check the code style.
• run make test to run UT.
• run make manifests to update the yaml files of CRD.

For helm chart, please complete the following checklist:

• make sure you have updated the values.yaml
  file of starrocks chart.
• In scripts directory, run bash create-parent-chart-values.sh to update the values.yaml file of the parent
  chart( kube-starrocks chart).

[dengliu]

Thanks for adding this support!

[yandongxiao]

values.yaml file. The result has been verified.

operator:
  starrocksOperator:
    image:
      repository: starrocks-kubernetes-operator
      tag: v1.9.3-rc1-20240304-1
    imagePullPolicy: IfNotPresent
starrocks:
  initPassword:
    enabled: true
    password: "123456"
  metrics:
    serviceMonitor:
      enabled: true
  starrocksBeSpec:
    lifecycle:
      postStart:
        exec:
          command:
          - /bin/sh
          - -c
          - touch /opt/my-be-txt
    beEnvVars:
    - name: LOG_CONSOLE
      value: "1"
    configMapInfo:
      configMapName: kube-starrocks-be-cm
      resolveKey: be.conf
    image:
      repository: starrocks/be-ubuntu
      tag: 3.2.2
    replicas: 1
    resources:
      limits:
        cpu: 8
        memory: 8Gi
      requests:
        cpu: 101m
        memory: 100Mi
    service:
      annotations:
        prometheus.io/path: /metrics
        prometheus.io/port: "8040"
        prometheus.io/scrape: "true"
      type: ClusterIP
    storageSpec:
      logStorageSize: 1Gi
      name: be-storage
      storageSize: 10Gi
  starrocksCluster:
    enabledBe: true
    enabledCn: true
  starrocksCnSpec:
    lifecycle:
      postStart:
        exec:
          command:
          - /bin/sh
          - -c
          - touch /opt/my-cn-txt
    cnEnvVars:
    - name: LOG_CONSOLE
      value: "1"
    image:
      repository: starrocks/cn-ubuntu
      tag: 3.2.2
    replicas: 1
    resources:
      limits:
        cpu: 8
        memory: 8Gi
      requests:
        cpu: 101m
        memory: 100Mi
    service:
      annotations:
        prometheus.io/path: /metrics
        prometheus.io/port: "8040"
        prometheus.io/scrape: "true"
  starrocksFESpec:
    lifecycle:
      postStart:
        exec:
          command:
          - /bin/sh
          - -c
          - touch /opt/my-fe-txt
    image:
      repository: starrocks/fe-ubuntu
      tag: 3.2.2
    resources:
      limits:
        cpu: 2
        memory: 4Gi
      requests:
        cpu: 100m
        memory: 200Mi
    service:
      annotations:
        aaa: bbb
        prometheus.io/path: /metrics
        prometheus.io/port: "8030"
        prometheus.io/scrape: "true"
      type: LoadBalancer
    storageSpec:
      logStorageSize: 1Gi
      name: fe-storage
      storageSize: 10Gi