Turn on the cmake flag WITH_DISTRIBUTE on CI system

[Yancey0623]

it's better to cache the third-party package on CI so that we can improve CI performance and turn on WITH_DISTRIBUTE cmake flag as also.

We can't turn on WITH_DISTRIBUTE currently is just because building gRPC dependency would task very very long time.

[Yancey0623]

We can not turn on the cmake flag WITH_DISTRIBUTE=ON utile the following bug fixed:

• test_send_recv hung, Fluid dist unit test hung #9315
• buid failed on CI Fluid dist build error on CI #9309
• test_recv_op failed, Fluid dist unit test failed #9292 -- @Yancey1989

[helinwang]

@Yancey1989 can you @ yourself on the ones you are working on? I will work on the not taken ones tomorrow.

[gongweibao]

Another two:

• Need a unit test to guarantee the loss, accuracy goes down: The distributed version loss doesn't go down. #9284
• Need a unit test to guarantee distributed performance upon the baseline.

[Yancey0623]

Thanks @helinwang, I'll take #9292 : )

[helinwang]

@putcn would love some help here in case you have bandwidth :D

[putcn]

I can work on #9309

[typhoonzero]

@Yancey1989 @putcn Can we close this now?

[Yancey0623]

Okay, will close this issue, we already turn on the cmake flag WITH_DISTRIBUTE=ON on the CI system.