Updated workflows for the release process

[swryan]

Summary

Updated workflows in preparation for the next release:

• renamed the package from om-aviary to aviary since we now have that name on PyPi
• added a workflow that will publish the package to PyPi when a release is made on GitHub
• updated the test workflows to use Dymos 1.13.1 which was published today (4/10/2025)
• added the nano editor and bash-completion to the docker images
• added a build-system section to pyproject.toml to facilitate building the release package

Related Issues

• Resolves #

Backwards incompatibilities

The package name is changed to aviary, which is how it will appear in pip list and is the name to use when pip installing from PyPi

New Dependencies

None