[backend] Organization sharing behavior change for upsert and enrichment

[richard-julien]

Use case

The platform is currently handling refs differently in term of upsert.
For refs like markings, labels etc its an accumulation to prevent any data loss / data leak
For sharing (granted_refs) is sync/replace each time.
This situation can leads to some inconsistency. So we need to Change the granted_refs behavior to act like marking defs when upserted

Because of changing this behavior we also need to handle the impacts in enrichment process

• User ask enrichment needs to be done as the connector and not the user
• Granted_refs needs to be handle correctly by the enrichment connectors to follow this information and so create new enriched data with the correct sharing
• Playbook operation for remove/replace sharing must be removed as no longer supported.

Data cleaning/fix for this information will need to be done through massive operation in the UI.

This ticket cancel and replace.
#5856
#5857
#5842