fix node patches in node 20.12

[bradzacher]

https://buildkite.com/canva-org/canva-web-build/builds/1432323#018f0aab-98b7-4ef7-8e2c-b975f8fa53ae/1464-1530

2024-04-23T11:21:59.249Z @canva/bazel/worker:error failed to run build: TypeError: The "paths[0]" argument must be of type string. Received an instance of Buffer
     at Object.resolve (node:path:1101:7)
     at fs.readdirSync (/mnt/ephemeral/bazel_user_root_2/a8584ebfb3d6ff0dfe61abfbfa5bb4d3/external/build_bazel_rules_nodejs/internal/node/node_patches.js:250:35)
     at _rmdirSync (node:internal/fs/rimraf:250:29)
     at rimrafSync (node:internal/fs/rimraf:193:7)
     at Object.rmSync (node:fs:1265:10)
     at buildPage (/var/lib/buildkite-agent/builds/canva__canva/web/tools/bazel/webpack/cli/webpack_cli.ts:50:6)
     at /var/lib/buildkite-agent/builds/canva__canva/web/tools/bazel/webpack/cli/webpack_cli.ts:219:5
     at runOneBuild (/var/lib/buildkite-agent/builds/canva__canva/web/tools/bazel/worker/worker_bootstrapper.ts:125:39)
     at /var/lib/buildkite-agent/builds/canva__canva/web/tools/bazel/worker/worker.ts:170:32
     at processTicksAndRejections (node:internal/process/task_queues:95:5) {
   code: 'ERR_INVALID_ARG_TYPE'
}

Fixes this error in node 20.12.2

output of bazel build //tools/build/nodejs/builtins_patcher:bundle in the monorepo run on top of https://github.com/Canva/canva/pull/495796