24-3: NodeBroker: use deltas when returning recently added nodes

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Changelog entry

NodeBroker now sends deltas when listing recently added nodes.

Changelog category

• Bugfix

Additional information

This fixes one of the issues where a blue-green deploy is stalled in big clusters due to cached node lists becoming invalidated with each new added node and excessive traffic when it is repeatedly resent to all nodes in the cluster. With a minor backwards compatible change to TEvListNodes it becomes possible to only send recently added nodes.

Related to #8942.

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TESTS	PASSED	ERRORS	FAILED	SKIPPED	MUTED?
11176	11090	0	26	26	34

🟢 2024-09-12 17:00:09 UTC ydbd size 5.5 GiB changed* by +45.4 KiB, which is < 100.0 KiB vs stable-24-3: OK

ydbd size dash	stable-24-3: 65caa64	merge: 5b5cdce	diff	diff %
ydbd size	5 935 537 784 Bytes	5 935 584 304 Bytes	+45.4 KiB	+0.001%
ydbd stripped size	1 488 031 840 Bytes	1 488 039 072 Bytes	+7.1 KiB	+0.000%

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TESTS	PASSED	ERRORS	FAILED	SKIPPED	MUTED?
39720	34473	0	5	5212	30

🟢 2024-09-12 17:08:23 UTC ydbd size 8.2 GiB changed* by +57.5 KiB, which is < 100.0 KiB vs stable-24-3: OK

ydbd size dash	stable-24-3: 65caa64	merge: 5b5cdce	diff	diff %
ydbd size	8 762 160 560 Bytes	8 762 219 408 Bytes	+57.5 KiB	+0.001%
ydbd stripped size	479 043 784 Bytes	479 046 152 Bytes	+2.3 KiB	+0.000%

^{*please be aware that the difference is based on comparing your commit and the last completed build from the post-commit, check comparation}