Don't ack readsets too early on volatile tx abort

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Changelog entry

Don't ack readsets too early on volatile tx abort

Changelog category

• Bugfix

Additional information

It was discovered that readsets could be acknowledged too early during a failed volatile tx abort and could lead to new tablet generation to wait for readsets which would not arrive until participants restart at least one more time.

Fixes #14474.

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TESTS	PASSED	ERRORS	FAILED	SKIPPED	MUTED?
207 (only retried tests)	79	0	0	1	127

🟢 2025-02-12 15:30:16 UTC Build successful.
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ydbd size dash	main: 335d81a	merge: e6fa9fa	diff	diff %
ydbd size	2 229 155 304 Bytes	2 229 155 736 Bytes	+432 Bytes	+0.000%
ydbd stripped size	473 275 352 Bytes	473 275 480 Bytes	+128 Bytes	+0.000%

^{*please be aware that the difference is based on comparing your commit and the last completed build from the post-commit, check comparation}

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TESTS	PASSED	ERRORS	FAILED	SKIPPED	MUTED?
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TESTS	PASSED	ERRORS	FAILED	SKIPPED	MUTED?
108 (only retried tests)	68	0	1	4	35

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TESTS	PASSED	ERRORS	FAILED	SKIPPED	MUTED?
70 (only retried tests)	33	0	1	3	33

🟢 2025-02-12 16:03:07 UTC Build successful.
🟢 2025-02-12 16:03:37 UTC ydbd size 3.6 GiB changed* by +1.2 KiB, which is < 100.0 KiB vs main: OK

ydbd size dash	main: 335d81a	merge: e6fa9fa	diff	diff %
ydbd size	3 876 563 976 Bytes	3 876 565 192 Bytes	+1.2 KiB	+0.000%
ydbd stripped size	1 357 419 696 Bytes	1 357 420 144 Bytes	+448 Bytes	+0.000%

^{*please be aware that the difference is based on comparing your commit and the last completed build from the post-commit, check comparation}