Enable passive and once options when adding listeners to Components, Custom Elements and Shadow Roots

[caridy]

Because of the fallback mechanism in the synthetic shadow, we need to queue the listeners adding to Components, Custom Elements and Shadow Roots, and because of that queue, we can't support passive or once options.

We should attempt to solve this at some point. The workaround is to add those manually in renderedCallback() on a regular element in your template, or on the slot element, and by doing so, you can use the options there. Keep in mind that this also requires some branch check to avoid adding that multiple times since renderedCallback() is invoked after every render.

[diervo]

We will need this soon since safari just moved to support passive this release as the default

[caridy]

A question here diego is that if events defined via template syntax are always going to be passive, which I think makes sense, and if they want to make it not-passive, then they can always call the programatic api addEventListener in the renderedCallback

[pmdartus]

Dupe of #1824.