Update to Node 18.20 for Memory Leak Fix

[TiKevin83]

Updating to Node 18.20 will fix a memory leak regression that has been affecting Jest for a while, see here for references:

jestjs/jest#11956

nodejs/node#51004

[TiKevin83]

@cortinico suggestions on the failed circleci build?

[cortinico]

@cortinico suggestions on the failed circleci build?

The CI failed because the build took more than 1 hour to complete.
In order to merge this we'll have fix the CI by either:

• Migrating to GitHub Actions
• Updating the build script to don't attempt to build all the architectures

[cortinico]

see also #226

[TiKevin83]

@cortinico started testing a fix for #226 in #227 - it looks like the publish already has a GitHub actions workflow so it just needed the build half ported

[cortinico]

@TiKevin83 amazing so can you rebase this PR and we can merge it afterwards 👍

[TiKevin83]

@TiKevin83 amazing so can you rebase this PR and we can merge it afterwards 👍

done - you may also want to remove the CircleCI integration that's still showing up on these PR checks

[cortinico]

done - you may also want to remove the CircleCI integration that's still showing up on these PR checks

Yeah I already disabled it but for some reason it keep getting re-enabled