Be more proactive about memory leaks in QuarkusTestExtensionState

[geoand]

This change is done as a response to #41164, although it might not fix the issue

[gsmet]

LGTM.

[quarkus-bot]

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Flaky tests - Develocity

⚙️ JVM Tests - JDK 17

📦 integration-tests/reactive-messaging-kafka

✖ io.quarkus.it.kafka.KafkaConnectorTest.testFruits - History

• Assertion condition defined as a Lambda expression in io.quarkus.it.kafka.KafkaConnectorTest expected: <6> but was: <5> within 10 seconds. - org.awaitility.core.ConditionTimeoutException

org.awaitility.core.ConditionTimeoutException: Assertion condition defined as a Lambda expression in io.quarkus.it.kafka.KafkaConnectorTest expected: <6> but was: <5> within 10 seconds.
	at org.awaitility.core.ConditionAwaiter.await(ConditionAwaiter.java:167)
	at org.awaitility.core.AssertionCondition.await(AssertionCondition.java:119)
	at org.awaitility.core.AssertionCondition.await(AssertionCondition.java:31)
	at org.awaitility.core.ConditionFactory.until(ConditionFactory.java:1006)
	at org.awaitility.core.ConditionFactory.untilAsserted(ConditionFactory.java:790)
	at io.quarkus.it.kafka.KafkaConnectorTest.testFruits(KafkaConnectorTest.java:63)
	at java.base/java.lang.reflect.Method.invoke(Method.java:568)

[geoand]

Let's hold off in light of https://quarkusio.zulipchat.com/#narrow/stream/187038-dev/topic/TestContainer.20IT.20tests.20out.20of.20memory/near/444414095