SelectPanel: Update SelectPanel to use modern ActionList (#4794)

* super wip

* just use the actionlist component and revert the type updates

* Update packages/react/src/FilteredActionList/FilteredActionList.tsx

* Some more progress

* revert the type changes and cast it :/

* clean

* wip

* wip wip

* add stories

* fix linting

* add tests for groups

* Map groups

* Update story names for e2e tests

* oops remove unintended file

* update story name

* same - update story name

* disable animations

* test(vrt): update snapshots

* Update tests since new action list has different semantics for group headings

* logging

* pass the rest

* extract children and use before text

* remove logging

* test(vrt): update snapshots

* add active styles to ActionList

* rename component name to be clearer

* remove variant full from examples

* tiny clean up

* fix showItemDividers

* another tiny cleanup

* pull MappedActionListItem to make it stable

* test(vrt): update snapshots

* show active styles only when used with keyboard

* backward compat: expose id as data-id

* update snapshots

* add story for long strings

* fishing for errors

* backward compatibility for renderItem

* remove todo now

* add a feature flag

* clean up dual filter list setup

* run jests test with both states of feature flags

* refactor snapshot tests with scenarios

* remove feature flag for main

* test(vrt): update snapshots

* add feature flag to e2e matrix

* test(vrt): update snapshots

* backward compat: allow groupMetadata to be empty array

* sigh newline

* Create sour-cooks-dress.md

* copy SelectPanel snapshots from main

* remove unrelated changes in this PR

* test(vrt): update snapshots

* set active styles for both active-descendant types

* test(vrt): update snapshots

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Co-authored-by: broccolinisoup <broccolinisoup@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Siddharth Kshetrapal <siddharthkp@github.com>
Co-authored-by: siddharthkp <siddharthkp@users.noreply.github.com>

Author: broccolinisoup