dm: OptShardingGroupKeeper should be reset when resume task

[GMHDBJD]

What did you do?

skip a conflict ddl, resume task

What did you expect to see?

task replicate as normal

What did you see instead?

OptShardingGroupKeeper not reset, all dml are skipped

Versions of the cluster

DM version (run dmctl -V or dm-worker -V or dm-master -V):

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Upstream MySQL/MariaDB server version:

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Downstream TiDB cluster version (execute SELECT tidb_version(); in a MySQL client):

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How did you deploy DM: tiup or manually?

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Other interesting information (system version, hardware config, etc):

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current status of DM cluster (execute query-status <task-name> in dmctl)

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