ddl: set jobs dependency by schema and table name (#49699)

[ti-chi-bot]

This is an automated cherry-pick of #49699

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #49498

Problem Summary:

We should also consider schema & table name before picking a DDL job to execute.

What changed and how does it work?

• Extract ddl.runningJobs to a separate file.
• Add AffectedSchemaNames and AffectedTableNames to model.Job.
• Refine job depenency check.

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
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  • I checked and no code files have been changed.

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

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[Benjamin2037]

LGTM

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Timeline:

• 2023-12-27 05:27:23.537487663 +0000 UTC m=+1629934.574714590: ☑️ agreed by Benjamin2037.
• 2023-12-27 06:47:12.37122006 +0000 UTC m=+1634723.408446985: ☑️ agreed by zimulala.

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