timers: allow Immediates to be unrefed

Refactor Immediates handling to allow for them to be unrefed, similar
to setTimeout, but without extra handles.

Document the new `immediate.ref()` and `immediate.unref()` methods.

Add SetImmediateUnref on the C++ side.

Backport-PR-URL: #19265
PR-URL: #18139
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Franziska Hinkelmann <franziska.hinkelmann@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>

Author: apapirovski

test/addons-napi/test_uv_loop/test_uv_loop.cc

@@ -24,6 +24,15 @@ void* SetImmediate(napi_env env, T&& cb) {
 
     assert(cb() != nullptr);
   });
+  // Idle handle is needed only to stop the event loop from blocking in poll.
+  uv_idle_t* idle = new uv_idle_t;
+  uv_idle_init(loop, idle);
+  uv_idle_start(idle, [](uv_idle_t* idle) {
+    uv_close(reinterpret_cast<uv_handle_t*>(idle), [](uv_handle_t* handle) {
+      delete reinterpret_cast<uv_check_t*>(handle);
+    });
+  });
+
   return nullptr;
 }