test: skip postmortem metadata test when nm fails

On Windows with msys installation, `nm` is available but
it is not able to grab symbols from the Windows build.
Skipping the test if nm outputs anything to stderr fixes that.

Backport-PR-URL: #22380
PR-URL: #19107
Reviewed-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Matheus Marchini <matheus@sthima.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>

test/parallel/test-postmortem-metadata.js

@@ -23,6 +23,11 @@ const nm = spawnSync('nm', args);
 if (nm.error && nm.error.errno === 'ENOENT')
   common.skip('nm not found on system');
 
+const stderr = nm.stderr.toString();
+if (stderr.length > 0) {
+  common.skip(`Failed to execute nm: ${stderr}`);
+}
+
 const symbolRe = /\s_?(v8dbg_.+)$/;
 const symbols = nm.stdout.toString().split('\n').reduce((filtered, line) => {
   const match = line.match(symbolRe);