node-api: remove RefBase and CallbackWrapper

PR-URL: #53590
Reviewed-By: Yagiz Nizipli <yagiz@nizipli.com>
Reviewed-By: Gabriel Schulhof <gabrielschulhof@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Chengzhong Wu <legendecas@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Michael Dawson <midawson@redhat.com>

Author: vmoroz