(DOCSP-18484): Fix confusing repl set resync step

Author: jeff-allen-mongo

source/tutorial/resync-replica-set-member.txt

@@ -84,18 +84,17 @@ perform an initial sync by restarting the instance without the contents of the
    method from :binary:`~bin.mongosh` or on Linux systems, the
    :option:`mongod --shutdown` option.
 
-2. (Optional) Make a backup of all data and sub-directories from the
+#. (Optional) Make a backup of all data and sub-directories from the
    member's :setting:`~storage.dbPath` directory. If a full backup is
    not required, consider backing up just the ``diagnostic.data``
    directory to preserve potentially-useful troubleshooting data in the
    event of an issue. See :ref:`ftdc-stub` for more information.
 
-3. Delete all data and sub-directories from the member's
+#. Delete all data and sub-directories from the member's
    :setting:`~storage.dbPath` directory.
 
-4. :doc:`Start the mongod process </tutorial/manage-mongodb-processes>`,
-   specifying :ref:`cli-mongod-replica-set` with a new
-   :rsconf:`members[n]._id`.
+#. :doc:`Restart the mongod process
+   </tutorial/manage-mongodb-processes>`.
 
 At this point, the :binary:`~bin.mongod` performs an initial sync. The length of
 the initial sync process depends on the size of the database and the network