refactor: align argument names with PyTorch

[XuehaiPan]

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Codecov Report

Merging #65 (cd54216) into main (78965f2) will decrease coverage by 0.79%.
The diff coverage is 59.16%.

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- Coverage   61.20%   60.40%   -0.80%     
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  Files          27       27              
  Lines         781      841      +60     
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+ Hits          478      508      +30     
- Misses        303      333      +30     

Flag	Coverage Δ
unittests	60.40% <59.16%> (-0.80%)	⬇️

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Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
torchopt/_src/hook.py	35.71% <0.00%> (ø)
torchopt/_src/optimizer/meta/base.py	33.33% <0.00%> (+1.90%)	⬆️
torchopt/_src/optimizer/meta/rmsprop.py	85.71% <ø> (-1.79%)	⬇️
torchopt/_src/optimizer/meta/sgd.py	85.71% <ø> (-1.79%)	⬇️
torchopt/_src/update.py	81.81% <ø> (ø)
torchopt/_src/alias.py	57.47% <54.16%> (-19.81%)	⬇️
torchopt/_src/transform.py	93.33% <92.30%> (-0.05%)	⬇️
torchopt/_src/accelerated_op/adam_op/adam_op.py	74.66% <100.00%> (ø)
torchopt/_src/base.py	100.00% <100.00%> (ø)
torchopt/_src/clip.py	82.35% <100.00%> (ø)
... and 6 more

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