deps: V8: cherry-pick 9df5ef70ff18

Original commit message:

    Add an `v8::ArrayBuffer::WasDetached` method to the C++ API

    V8's C++ API does not give a way to tell whether an ArrayBuffer has
    been detached from the `v8::ArrayBuffer` class. In fact, as far as can
    be told from the C++ API without running JS code, detached
    ArrayBuffers behave the same as zero-sized ArrayBuffers and there is
    no way to observe the difference. However, this difference can be
    observed in JS because constructing a TypedArray from a detached
    ArrayBuffer will throw.

    This change adds a `WasDetached` method to the `v8::ArrayBuffer` class
    to give embedders access to this information without having to run JS
    code.

    Bug: v8:13159
    Change-Id: I2bb1e380cee1cecd31f6d48ec3d9f28c03a8a673
    Reviewed-on: https://chromium-review.googlesource.com/c/v8/v8/+/3810345
    Commit-Queue: Toon Verwaest <verwaest@chromium.org>
    Reviewed-by: Toon Verwaest <verwaest@chromium.org>
    Cr-Commit-Position: refs/heads/main@{#83963}

Refs: v8/v8@9df5ef7
PR-URL: nodejs#45474
Reviewed-By: Michaël Zasso <targos@protonmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Joyee Cheung <joyeec9h3@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Daeyeon Jeong <daeyeon.dev@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Rich Trott <rtrott@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Jiawen Geng <technicalcute@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
PR-URL: nodejs#45230
Reviewed-By: Yagiz Nizipli <yagiz@nizipli.com>

common.gypi

@@ -36,7 +36,7 @@
 
     # Reset this number to 0 on major V8 upgrades.
     # Increment by one for each non-official patch applied to deps/v8.
-    'v8_embedder_string': '-node.6',
+    'v8_embedder_string': '-node.7',
 
     ##### V8 defaults for Node.js #####