Add option to assert on each build

[jraska]

• Engineers typically won't run the assertion locally - the use case it to run the assertions as part of any build to immediately notify engineers at the first build after added dependency.
• assertOnAnyBuild option added to configuration with false as a default
• The assertion typically takes < 10ms (tried this graph on M1 machine), therefore running it on any build takes neglectable amount of time
• Related to Explore immediate check on Gradle sync #166
• The Explore immediate check on Gradle sync #166 will be resolved after the new version is released and documentation is added to README.

Performance impact

• On each build measured 2.4ms for 1000 modules graph on M1 Pro machine, therefore the overhead is neglectable for any build even on older machines.