patches don't depopulate objects

[ReadWriteError]

Describe the bug
When performing a query based update like model.updateOne() mongoose will depopulate object referenced by ID but the patch will be generated from the update as is.

To Reproduce
The following code will produce the undesirable behavior.

mongoose.plugin(patchHistoryPlugin, {
    eventCreated: "created",
    eventUpdated: "updated",
    eventDeleted: "deleted"
})

const Test1 = mongoose.model('test1', {
  text: {type: String}
})
const Test2 = mongoose.model('test2', {
  text: {type: String},
  other: {type: Schema.Types.ObjectId, ref: 'test1', required: false}
})

const test1 = new Test1({text: 'test1'})
const test2 = new Test2({text: 'test2'})
await test1.save()
await test2.save()

await Test2.updateOne({ _id: test2._id }, {
  other: {_id: test1._id, text: 'test1'}
}).exec()

The history patch that will be generated is this.

[
  {
    op: 'add',
    path: '/other',
    value: { _id: '65df6830149fb9e15254264a', text: 'test1' }
  }
]

Expected behavior
The patch should resemble what happens in the mongodb server and the patch should look like this.

[ { op: 'add', path: '/other', value: '65df679a925014b9758aaa1a' } ]