Added internal lfs_dir_set, an umbrella to dir append/update/remove operations

This move was surprisingly complex, but offers the ultimate opportunity for
code reuse in terms of resizable entries. Instead of needing to provide
separate functions for adding and removing entries, adding and removing
entries can just be viewed as changing an entry's size to-and-from zero.

Unfortunately, it's not _quite_ that simple, since append and remove
hide some relatively complex operations for when directory blocks
overflow or need to be cleaned up.

However, with enough shoehorning, and a new committer type that allows
specifying recursive commit lists (is this now a push-down automata?),
it does seem to be possible to shove all of the entry update logic into
a single function.

Sidenote, I switched back to an enum-based DSL, since the addition of a
recursive region opcode breaks the consistency of what needs to be
passed to the DSL callback functions. It's much simpler to handle each
opcode explicitly inside a recursive lfs_commit_region function.

Author: geky