Integration with AbstractPlutoDingetjes.Bonds.validate_value

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See https://docs.juliahub.com/AbstractPlutoDingetjes/UHbnu/1.1.1/#AbstractPlutoDingetjes.Bonds.validate_value-Tuple{Any,%20Any}

We should add an option to only allow setting bonds to values that are validated. This is not useful in Pluto (if you have access to set bonds, you have access to run arbitrary code), but we want it for JuliaPluto/PlutoSliderServer.jl#39

This should run entirely on PlutoRunner.jl to avoid a performance impact by doing an extra round trip through distributed