Fix restart of containers that use a dockerfile

[karolz-ms]

Description

Adjust timeouts and retry policy for request made from app host to DCP.

Fixes #6392

Checklist

• Is this feature complete?
  • Yes. Ready to ship.
  • No. Follow-up changes expected.
• Are you including unit tests for the changes and scenario tests if relevant?
  • Yes
  • No (N/A)
• Did you add public API?
  • Yes
    • If yes, did you have an API Review for it?
      • Yes
      • No
    • Did you add <remarks /> and <code /> elements on your triple slash comments?
      • Yes
      • No
  • No
• Does the change make any security assumptions or guarantees?
  • Yes
    • If yes, have you done a threat model and had a security review?
      • Yes
      • No
  • No
• Does the change require an update in our Aspire docs?
  • Yes
    • Link to aspire-docs issue:
  • No

Microsoft Reviewers: Open in CodeFlow

[davidfowl]

This needs a backport

[karolz-ms]

/backport to release/9.0

[github-actions]

Started backporting to release/9.0: https://github.com/dotnet/aspire/actions/runs/11450708522

[mitchdenny]

LGTM ... ran this locally.