stabilize useQuery tests (#11890)

* add delay to test

* wip

* rewrite some tests with profiler

* refactor tests to use the profiler

* more tests

* make more tests less flimsy

* more flaky tests

* cleanup

* fix another flaky test

* review feedback

* Clean up Prettier, Size-limit, and Api-Extractor

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Co-authored-by: phryneas <phryneas@users.noreply.github.com>

Author: phryneas

.size-limits.json

@@ -1,4 +1,4 @@
 {
-  "dist/apollo-client.min.cjs": 39605,
+  "dist/apollo-client.min.cjs": 39604,
   "import { ApolloClient, InMemoryCache, HttpLink } from \"dist/index.js\" (production)": 32852
 }