[SPARK-45593][BUILD] Building a runnable distribution from master code running spark-sql raise error

### What changes were proposed in this pull request?

Fix a build issue, when building a runnable distribution from master code running spark-sql raise error:
```
Caused by: java.lang.ClassNotFoundException: org.sparkproject.guava.util.concurrent.internal.InternalFutureFailureAccess
	at java.base/jdk.internal.loader.BuiltinClassLoader.loadClass(BuiltinClassLoader.java:641)
	at java.base/jdk.internal.loader.ClassLoaders$AppClassLoader.loadClass(ClassLoaders.java:188)
	at java.base/java.lang.ClassLoader.loadClass(ClassLoader.java:520)
	... 58 more
```
the problem is due to a gauva dependency in  spark-connect-common POM that **conflicts**  with the shade plugin of the parent pom.

- the spark-connect-common contains `connect.guava.version` version of guava, and it is relocation as `${spark.shade.packageName}.guava` not the `${spark.shade.packageName}.connect.guava`;
- The spark-network-common also contains guava related classes, it has also been relocation is `${spark.shade.packageName}.guava`, but guava version `${guava.version}`;
- As a result, in the presence of different versions of the classpath org.sparkproject.guava.xx;

In addition, after investigation, it seems that module spark-connect-common is not related to guava, so we can remove guava dependency from spark-connect-common.

### Why are the changes needed?

Building a runnable distribution from master code is not runnable.

### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?

No

### How was this patch tested?

I ran the build command output a runnable distribution package manually for the tests;

Build command:
```
./dev/make-distribution.sh --name ui --pip --tgz  -Phive -Phive-thriftserver -Pyarn -Pconnect
```

Test result:
<img width="1276" alt="image" src="https://github.com/apache/spark/assets/51110188/aefbc433-ea5c-4287-8ebd-367806043ac8">

I also checked the `org.sparkproject.guava.cache.LocalCache` from jars dir;
Before:
```
➜  jars grep -lr 'org.sparkproject.guava.cache.LocalCache' ./
.//spark-connect_2.13-4.0.0-SNAPSHOT.jar
.//spark-network-common_2.13-4.0.0-SNAPSHOT.jar
.//spark-connect-common_2.13-4.0.0-SNAPSHOT.jar
```

Now:
```
➜  jars grep -lr 'org.sparkproject.guava.cache.LocalCache' ./
.//spark-network-common_2.13-4.0.0-SNAPSHOT.jar
```

### Was this patch authored or co-authored using generative AI tooling?

No

Closes #43436 from Yikf/SPARK-45593.

Authored-by: yikaifei <yikaifei@apache.org>
Signed-off-by: yangjie01 <yangjie01@baidu.com>

Author: yikf

assembly/pom.xml

@@ -149,6 +149,12 @@
           <groupId>org.apache.spark</groupId>
           <artifactId>spark-connect_${scala.binary.version}</artifactId>
           <version>${project.version}</version>
+          <exclusions>
+            <exclusion>
+              <groupId>org.apache.spark</groupId>
+              <artifactId>spark-connect-common_${scala.binary.version}</artifactId>
+            </exclusion>
+          </exclusions>
         </dependency>
         <dependency>
           <groupId>org.apache.spark</groupId>

connector/connect/client/jvm/pom.xml

@@ -51,15 +51,9 @@
       <version>${project.version}</version>
     </dependency>
     <!--
-      We need to define guava and protobuf here because we need to change the scope of both from
+      We need to define protobuf here because we need to change the scope of both from
       provided to compile. If we don't do this we can't shade these libraries.
     -->
-    <dependency>
-      <groupId>com.google.guava</groupId>
-      <artifactId>guava</artifactId>
-      <version>${connect.guava.version}</version>
-      <scope>compile</scope>
-    </dependency>
     <dependency>
       <groupId>com.google.protobuf</groupId>
       <artifactId>protobuf-java</artifactId>

connector/connect/common/pom.xml

@@ -47,6 +47,11 @@
             <groupId>com.google.protobuf</groupId>
             <artifactId>protobuf-java</artifactId>
         </dependency>
+        <!--
+          SPARK-45593: spark connect relies on a specific version of Guava, We perform shading
+          of the Guava library within the connect-common module to ensure both connect-server and
+          connect-client modules maintain consistent and accurate Guava dependencies.
+        -->
         <dependency>
             <groupId>com.google.guava</groupId>
             <artifactId>guava</artifactId>
@@ -145,6 +150,35 @@
                     </execution>
                 </executions>
             </plugin>
+            <plugin>
+                <groupId>org.apache.maven.plugins</groupId>
+                <artifactId>maven-shade-plugin</artifactId>
+                <configuration>
+                    <shadedArtifactAttached>false</shadedArtifactAttached>
+                    <artifactSet>
+                        <includes>
+                            <include>org.spark-project.spark:unused</include>
+                            <include>com.google.guava:guava</include>
+                            <include>com.google.guava:failureaccess</include>
+                            <include>org.apache.tomcat:annotations-api</include>
+                        </includes>
+                    </artifactSet>
+                    <relocations>
+                        <relocation>
+                            <pattern>com.google.common</pattern>
+                            <shadedPattern>${spark.shade.packageName}.connect.guava</shadedPattern>
+                        </relocation>
+                    </relocations>
+                </configuration>
+                <executions>
+                    <execution>
+                        <phase>package</phase>
+                        <goals>
+                            <goal>shade</goal>
+                        </goals>
+                    </execution>
+                </executions>
+            </plugin>
         </plugins>
     </build>
     <profiles>

connector/connect/server/pom.xml

@@ -51,12 +51,6 @@
       <groupId>org.apache.spark</groupId>
       <artifactId>spark-connect-common_${scala.binary.version}</artifactId>
       <version>${project.version}</version>
-      <exclusions>
-        <exclusion>
-          <groupId>com.google.guava</groupId>
-          <artifactId>guava</artifactId>
-        </exclusion>
-      </exclusions>
     </dependency>
     <dependency>
       <groupId>org.apache.spark</groupId>
@@ -156,17 +150,6 @@
       <groupId>org.scala-lang.modules</groupId>
       <artifactId>scala-parallel-collections_${scala.binary.version}</artifactId>
     </dependency>
-    <dependency>
-      <groupId>com.google.guava</groupId>
-      <artifactId>guava</artifactId>
-      <version>${connect.guava.version}</version>
-      <scope>compile</scope>
-    </dependency>
-    <dependency>
-      <groupId>com.google.guava</groupId>
-      <artifactId>failureaccess</artifactId>
-      <version>${guava.failureaccess.version}</version>
-    </dependency>
     <dependency>
       <groupId>com.google.protobuf</groupId>
       <artifactId>protobuf-java</artifactId>
@@ -287,7 +270,6 @@
           <shadedArtifactAttached>false</shadedArtifactAttached>
           <artifactSet>
             <includes>
-              <include>com.google.guava:*</include>
               <include>io.grpc:*:</include>
               <include>com.google.protobuf:*</include>
 
@@ -307,13 +289,6 @@
             </includes>
           </artifactSet>
           <relocations>
-            <relocation>
-              <pattern>com.google.common</pattern>
-              <shadedPattern>${spark.shade.packageName}.connect.guava</shadedPattern>
-              <includes>
-                <include>com.google.common.**</include>
-              </includes>
-            </relocation>
             <relocation>
               <pattern>com.google.thirdparty</pattern>
               <shadedPattern>${spark.shade.packageName}.connect.guava</shadedPattern>